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Conor Oberst Asked to Drop Suit Against Rape Accuser Even If He’s Innocent!

Bright Eyes singer/songwriter Conor Oberst filed a lawsuit last Thursday seeking $1 million in damages from the woman who, in the comments section on an xoJane article, accused him of raping her over a decade ago.

According to Oberst, the woman is a jilted fan who has even listed Bright Eyes as her favorite band on her Facebook page as recently as January 2013.

So, obviously they’ll go to court; simple, right?

Without question Oberst has a right to his day in court — but a domestic violence advocacy group is asking him to drop the suit, even if he’s innocent.

What?

According to Spin, Right to Speak Out contends that his lawsuit contributes to the culture of silence surrounding rape:

According to Right to Speak Out, the lawsuit will hurt victims. “It is offensive to imply that filing such a lawsuit is a respectable way to procure money regardless of what he declares he intends to do with it,” the group said in a statement. “Even if Ms. Faircloth was not truthful, vilifying discussion of sexual assault by filing such a lawsuit only adds to the problem of under-reporting that enables sexual assault to proliferate at alarming rates.” Only 21 percent of rapes are reported, according to the nonprofit, with only 7 percent of those ending in convictions.

So, Right To Speak Out finds it “offensive” that a man would sue to clear his name. To these morons the ‘right’ of false accusers and defamers to “speak out” trumps a man’s right to vindicate himself in a court of law — because proving that a woman violated the law equals “vilifying discussion of sexual assault.”

Justice for the falsely accused “only adds to the problem of under-reporting” crime. Conor Oberst should just roll over and accept that the damage to his good name is collateral damage.

This is what fanaticism looks like. Sue her ass off, Conor.

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  • No good cause is ever served by suppressing the truth. If the accusation is false, regardless of all other factors, it needs to be shown for what it is. In no way does this damage the credibility of real victims giving honest testimony, nor will such a suit discourage anyone otherwise willing to come forward and report a crime from doing so.

    It's simply an attempt to silence someone whose particular truth is unpalatable to adherents of a certain illogical political philosophy who themselves gripe endlessly about being silenced when they try to tell their side of the story.

    Let all be heard and let all understand that the freedom to speak is not guaranteed to come with no consequences. If you misuse that freedom to lie and slander you may pay a price for it. Indeed, even if you speak the truth you may pay a price for it. No law can or should attempt to immunize one and all from the responsibility for what they say.

    That is a more important message these for a group that dares call itself Right to Speak Out to convey to those it wishes to encourage to come forward with testimony. Speaking the truth isn't just a right, it's an obligation. Those who have been assaulted and remain silent, while their reasons are understandable, nevertheless help create the kind of environment in which predators feel safe to operate. After the ordeals the victims have been through it's understandable that they would not want to subject themselves to the ignorance and cruelty with which their testimony may be met, but this does not acquit them of the responsibility to identify their attackers.

    Likewise, when false accusations are made, it is the obligation of those who have been unjustly charged to speak out against such persecution, which is often a hidden cost of celebrity, so that all will understand that freedom of speech isn't free. The exercise of it often comes at a high price and those who speak out should be prepared to pay that price whether or not they think it's fair.

    There is no such thing as a harmful truth or a harmless lie.

  • As someone whom was falsely accused of rape myself I am obviously going to have some subjective bias in what I am going to say so consider this sentence the disclarimer. Right To Speak Out's logic for asking Oberst to drop his lawsuit is completely flawed and actually contradicts their mission statement. My argument is as follows:

    1. By saying Oberst is silencing victims of actual sexual misconduct (whether it be 1st, 2nd, or 3rd degree) they are permiting a rape culture of another sort. A revenge culture if you will. This is because they allow a culture where people can make false accusations without having to worry about any consequences. This also hurts actual victims because it will make the individuals whom comprise the justice system develop an unhealthy skepticism towards the subject of rape whether consciously or subconsciously.

    2. If Oberst is innocent then Right To Speak Out should actually be SUPPORTIVE of his lawsuit as what this woman has done, based on the assumption that Oberst is innocent, is a form of rape. By taking a stance to the contrary they are actually permitting one form of rape while disagreeing with another. I know that all people are hypocritical to some extent but openly making such a statement this group has lost all credibility and can be labeled as fanatic as well as terrorizing.

    3. It's also highly sexist since they are saying women should be allowed to make false accusations while men should be gagged. Rape is a crime that does not show a preference towards gender except for in the sense. There are all forms of rape besides those in the sexual sense. I mean do we want to promote such a culture?

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