Shanica Blair of the Jamaica, WI Gleaner writes:

Many are of the opinion that pornography is as addictive as drugs and is harmful to a relationship.

But according to sex educator Shelly-Ann ‘Dr Sexy’ Weeks, pornography is just another element that, based on its use, can hurt or help a relationship. “I personally think that couples can watch porn together and use it as a learning tool and find out what the other likes. I encourage partners to masturbate in front of each other. This is very erotic and a great way to improve foreplay between them. However, if persons start using porn to replace sex with their partner or if it becomes a hindrance, then it will have negative effects on the relationship.”

But she advises that it is very important that you find someone that you share common interests with, as it can be a very delicate topic, especially if one partner enjoys it and the other doesn’t.

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