How often do your friends ask you about your genitals?
I’d wager it’s not that often.
Tell them you’re transgender and watch how that changes.
Not only do I frequently have to give updates on what stage I’m at in my transition, I also have a list of people who have asked to see my penis when it’s finally complete.
An actual list.
In fact, it got so ridiculous that I started telling people that the only way they were going to get to see it was if they were planning on pleasuring it.