I’m a 25-year-old woman and I’ve always felt I have a higher than average sex drive. I masturbate a lot and enjoy watching pornography. Several months ago I started posting naked pictures and videos of myself masturbating (none showing my face or any identifying features) on a porn site where people upload amateur videos. It’s been a big turn-on for me to post them and to read messages from the men who’ve watched me. I am not ashamed to have done this; it’s something I did for myself and my enjoyment and I’m happy that it helped me to appreciate my body and my pleasure more.
However, I have started seeing a guy I really like. It’s still early on, we’ve only known each other a couple of weeks, but I don’t know if this is something I should tell him about, either now, eventually or ever. It could be fun to do together if we both were into it, but it is not at all a requirement for me. Already since meeting him I’ve significantly reduced how often I go on the website and haven’t posted anything new of myself in a few months. It’s far more important to me to build a fulfilling sex life with my partner.
Should I take it all down now and put it in the past? Should I tell him about it and if so when and how?
Thank you,
Amateur Filmmaker
Not reading the article over there.
If you tell someone, you are no longer anonymous. If you tell someone after only knowing them a few weeks, you are an easy mark.
If this situation should ever arise for anyone, then don’t tell them about the previous stuff you did. Just start as something new.